{"id":987590881,"date":"2025-05-25T14:37:11","date_gmt":"2025-05-25T18:37:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/danellaconsulting.net\/?p=987590881"},"modified":"2025-05-25T14:38:15","modified_gmt":"2025-05-25T18:38:15","slug":"we-are-only-here-for-a-short-time-when-we-leave-this-world-only-acts-of-kindness-matter-everything-else-is-a-distraction","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/danellaconsulting.net\/index.php\/2025\/05\/25\/we-are-only-here-for-a-short-time-when-we-leave-this-world-only-acts-of-kindness-matter-everything-else-is-a-distraction\/","title":{"rendered":"We are only here for a short time, When we leave this world only acts of kindness matter everything else is a distraction."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; text_font_size=&#8221;18px&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; sticky_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;]<\/p>\n<div class=\"x78zum5 xdt5ytf x1iyjqo2 x1n2onr6\">\n<div class=\"xyamay9 x1pi30zi xsag5q8 x1swvt13\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"xyinxu5 x4uap5 x1g2khh7 xkhd6sd\">\n<p><span class=\"x6zurak x18bv5gf x184q3qc xqxll94 x1s928wv xhkezso x1gmr53x x1cpjm7i x1fgarty x1943h6x x193iq5w xeuugli x13faqbe x1vvkbs x1lliihq xzsf02u xlh3980 xvmahel x1x9mg3 xo1l8bm\" dir=\"auto\">My son Andrew will never get married. He won\u2019t have children. He won\u2019t drive a car or experience many of the milestones we take for granted.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>But he is happy. And he is healthy.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>And to me, that\u2019s everything.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>When a stranger gives him a smile, it lights up my entire day.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>When a girl glances at him kindly, joy rushes through his whole body like a wave of sunshine.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>It doesn\u2019t take much to be deeply, profoundly human.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>Let me tell you a story.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>At a party held at a school for children with special needs, one father stood up to speak.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>What he said stayed with everyone who heard it.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>After thanking the staff who worked with such devotion, he paused and shared a reflection:<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>\u201cWhen nothing disturbs the balance of nature, the natural order reveals itself in perfect harmony.\u201d<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>Then his voice began to tremble.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>\u201cBut my son Herbert doesn\u2019t learn like other children. He doesn\u2019t understand like they do.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>So tell me\u2026 where is the natural order in his life?\u201d<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>The room fell completely silent.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>Then he continued:<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>\u201cI believe that when a child like Herbert is born\u2014with a physical or cognitive disability\u2014the world is given a rare and sacred opportunity:<br class=\"html-br\" \/>To reveal the very core of the human spirit.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>And that spirit is revealed not through perfection\u2014but in how we treat those who need us most.\u201d<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>He shared a moment he would never forget:<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>One afternoon, he and Herbert were walking past a field where some boys were playing soccer.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>Herbert looked longingly at them and asked:<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>\u201cDad\u2026 do you think they\u2019ll let me play?\u201d<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>The father\u2019s heart sank. He knew the answer was likely no.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>But he also knew\u2014if they said yes\u2014it could give his son something far more valuable than a goal: a sense of belonging.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>So he gently approached one of the boys and asked:<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>\u201cWould it be okay if Herbert joined the game?\u201d<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>The boy looked over at his teammates, hesitated, then smiled:<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>\u201cWe\u2019re losing 3\u20130 and there\u2019s ten minutes left\u2026 Sure. Let him take a penalty.\u201d<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>Herbert lit up.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>He ran to the bench, put on a jersey that nearly swallowed him whole, and beamed with pride. His father stood at the sidelines, tears in his eyes.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>He didn\u2019t play much. He just stood nearby, watching. But something in the boys shifted.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>They began to see him\u2014not as a distraction, but as one of them.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>And then, in the final minute, a miracle happened.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>Herbert\u2019s team was awarded a penalty kick.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>The same boy turned to the father and gave a knowing nod:<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>\u201cIt\u2019s his shot.\u201d<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>Herbert walked slowly to the ball, nervous but radiant.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>The goalkeeper caught on. He made a show of diving to the side, giving the boy a clear shot.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>Herbert nudged the ball gently forward.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>It rolled across the goal line.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>Goal.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>The boys erupted in cheers. They hoisted Herbert into the air like he\u2019d won the World Cup.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>They didn\u2019t just let him play.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>They let him belong.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>The father closed his speech with tears falling freely:<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>\u201cThat day, a group of boys made a decision\u2026 not to win, but to be human.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>To show the world what kindness, dignity, and love really look like.\u201d<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>Herbert passed away that winter.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>He never saw another summer.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>But he never forgot the day he was a hero.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>And his father never forgot the night he came home, telling the story as his wife held Herbert close, weeping\u2014not from sorrow, but from joy.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>A final thought:<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>Every day, we scroll past distractions\u2014memes, jokes, quick laughs.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>But when something truly meaningful crosses our path, we hesitate.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>We wonder: Who would understand this?<br class=\"html-br\" \/>Who should I send this to?<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>If someone sent you this story, it\u2019s because they believe you\u2019re one of those people.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>That you see the heart in others.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>That you understand what really matters.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>Because each day, the world gives us countless chances to choose decency over indifference.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>As one wise man said:<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>\u201cA society is judged by how it treats its most vulnerable.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Source: https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/photo?fbid=1288957242797547&amp;set=a.310924747267473<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n<span class=\"et_bloom_bottom_trigger\"><\/span>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My son Andrew will never get married. He won\u2019t have children. He won\u2019t drive a car or experience many of the milestones we take for granted.But he is happy. And he is healthy.And to me, that\u2019s everything.When a stranger gives him a smile, it lights up my entire day.When a girl glances at him kindly, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":987590882,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"<div class=\"x78zum5 xdt5ytf x1iyjqo2 x1n2onr6\"><div class=\"xyamay9 x1pi30zi xsag5q8 x1swvt13\"><div><div class=\"xyinxu5 x4uap5 x1g2khh7 xkhd6sd\"><p><span class=\"x6zurak x18bv5gf x184q3qc xqxll94 x1s928wv xhkezso x1gmr53x x1cpjm7i x1fgarty x1943h6x x193iq5w xeuugli x13faqbe x1vvkbs x1lliihq xzsf02u xlh3980 xvmahel x1x9mg3 xo1l8bm\" dir=\"auto\">My son Andrew will never get married. He won\u2019t have children. He won\u2019t drive a car or experience many of the milestones we take for granted.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>But he is happy. And he is healthy.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>And to me, that\u2019s everything.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>When a stranger gives him a smile, it lights up my entire day.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>When a girl glances at him kindly, joy rushes through his whole body like a wave of sunshine.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>It doesn\u2019t take much to be deeply, profoundly human.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>Let me tell you a story.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>At a party held at a school for children with special needs, one father stood up to speak.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>What he said stayed with everyone who heard it.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>After thanking the staff who worked with such devotion, he paused and shared a reflection:<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>\u201cWhen nothing disturbs the balance of nature, the natural order reveals itself in perfect harmony.\u201d<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>Then his voice began to tremble.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>\u201cBut my son Herbert doesn\u2019t learn like other children. He doesn\u2019t understand like they do.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>So tell me\u2026 where is the natural order in his life?\u201d<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>The room fell completely silent.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>Then he continued:<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>\u201cI believe that when a child like Herbert is born\u2014with a physical or cognitive disability\u2014the world is given a rare and sacred opportunity:<br class=\"html-br\" \/>To reveal the very core of the human spirit.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>And that spirit is revealed not through perfection\u2014but in how we treat those who need us most.\u201d<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>He shared a moment he would never forget:<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>One afternoon, he and Herbert were walking past a field where some boys were playing soccer.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>Herbert looked longingly at them and asked:<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>\u201cDad\u2026 do you think they\u2019ll let me play?\u201d<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>The father\u2019s heart sank. He knew the answer was likely no.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>But he also knew\u2014if they said yes\u2014it could give his son something far more valuable than a goal: a sense of belonging.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>So he gently approached one of the boys and asked:<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>\u201cWould it be okay if Herbert joined the game?\u201d<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>The boy looked over at his teammates, hesitated, then smiled:<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>\u201cWe\u2019re losing 3\u20130 and there\u2019s ten minutes left\u2026 Sure. Let him take a penalty.\u201d<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>Herbert lit up.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>He ran to the bench, put on a jersey that nearly swallowed him whole, and beamed with pride. His father stood at the sidelines, tears in his eyes.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>He didn\u2019t play much. He just stood nearby, watching. But something in the boys shifted.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>They began to see him\u2014not as a distraction, but as one of them.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>And then, in the final minute, a miracle happened.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>Herbert\u2019s team was awarded a penalty kick.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>The same boy turned to the father and gave a knowing nod:<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>\u201cIt\u2019s his shot.\u201d<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>Herbert walked slowly to the ball, nervous but radiant.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>The goalkeeper caught on. He made a show of diving to the side, giving the boy a clear shot.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>Herbert nudged the ball gently forward.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>It rolled across the goal line.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>Goal.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>The boys erupted in cheers. They hoisted Herbert into the air like he\u2019d won the World Cup.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>They didn\u2019t just let him play.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>They let him belong.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>The father closed his speech with tears falling freely:<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>\u201cThat day, a group of boys made a decision\u2026 not to win, but to be human.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>To show the world what kindness, dignity, and love really look like.\u201d<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>Herbert passed away that winter.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>He never saw another summer.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>But he never forgot the day he was a hero.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>And his father never forgot the night he came home, telling the story as his wife held Herbert close, weeping\u2014not from sorrow, but from joy.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>A final thought:<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>Every day, we scroll past distractions\u2014memes, jokes, quick laughs.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>But when something truly meaningful crosses our path, we hesitate.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>We wonder: Who would understand this?<br class=\"html-br\" \/>Who should I send this to?<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>If someone sent you this story, it\u2019s because they believe you\u2019re one of those people.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>That you see the heart in others.<br class=\"html-br\" \/>That you understand what really matters.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>Because each day, the world gives us countless chances to choose decency over indifference.<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>As one wise man said:<br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>\u201cA society is judged by how it treats its most vulnerable.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>","_et_gb_content_width":"","_eb_attr":"","footnotes":"","_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[11,60,28,7,4,6,20,10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-987590881","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-action-steps","category-editors-choice","category-great-awakening","category-hidden-secrets","category-prophecy","category-revelations","category-spiritual","category-winning"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/danellaconsulting.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/987590881","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/danellaconsulting.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/danellaconsulting.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/danellaconsulting.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/danellaconsulting.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=987590881"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/danellaconsulting.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/987590881\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":987590885,"href":"https:\/\/danellaconsulting.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/987590881\/revisions\/987590885"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/danellaconsulting.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/987590882"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/danellaconsulting.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=987590881"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/danellaconsulting.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=987590881"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/danellaconsulting.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=987590881"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}